Trust & safety

Trust isn't a feature. It's the product.

These aren't badges. They're requirements.

Government ID, matched to a selfie

Required at signup. A real check through Persona, not a "verified" badge that anyone can earn. If someone gets removed, they can't come back under a new account.

Public places, every time

Every first meet happens at a restaurant, café, museum, or landmark. We suggest the options, you pick from them. Private locations are never an option in the app.

Both sides confirm. Both sides rate.

After every meet, both people confirm it happened and rate the experience. Three strikes — low ratings or no-shows — and we close the account. No appeals.

A 30-second video check, before you meet

Optional, inside the app. A short video call so you both know the person you're meeting is the person from the profile.

Share my plan, one tap

Send a friend the meet details — who, where, when — with a live link they can check in on. Built for the moment right before you head out the door.

No DMs to strangers

You can't browse the app and message people. You request to join a moment, and only then does chat unlock — and only with the people in that moment. This shuts down the most common path to harassment.

What we don't do
  • · We don't sell your data, share it with advertisers, or hand it to data brokers.
  • · We don't run ads. An app that asks you to meet strangers can't also be selling your attention to advertisers.
  • · We don't take a cut of your dinner. What happens at the meet is between you and the person across the table.
  • · This isn't a dating app. Romantic or sexual messaging is grounds for an immediate strike, and the rule is the same for everyone.
FAQ

Common questions

During a meet

About other users

About us